Why?  What is happening?  The truth is we were born with an instinct, in much the same way that a whale or a butterfly was born with the instinct to migrate; we were born with the desire to love and be loved.  But while the desire to love may be instinctive, the ability to love is not.  The ability to love is dependent upon acquiring an understanding of how to love, and then having the character required to live it out.  Great marriages are not a luck of the draw, they are not some sort of happy cosmic accident, they are in fact, the result of some pretty basic choices.  The choice to learn how to love, the choice to courageously build the internal character that love requires, and yes, choosing a mate who also understands commitment…these choices are at the core of every great marriage.  Conversely, bad marriages can’t simply be written off as “they weren’t really in love”, or “he or she must have been a jerk”, or “the chemistry must not have been right”, or a dozen other surface answers.  There are good people, people who really love one another, who still fail at their relationships…and they fail because they don’t know how to stay in love for a lifetime.  

This series, “A LIFETIME LOVE…building the marriage you want to come home to”, is a powerful, life-changing tool.  This series has impacted thousands of homes, and changed thousands of lives.  It is a series that will change how you see and understand love.  If you let it, it will begin to make a profound change in your own character…a character that will let you love and live out love.  It has turned many a home around.